For the host,

that’s the most.

Gift it

Gift Boxes

New Leaf Gift Set
$42.00

The most meaningful moments happen when we slow down to connect. The Gracious Host set is a curated gift designed to honor the joy of giving. Perfectly balancing functional harmony with whimsical charm, this set is more than a token—it is a celebration of the rituals that turn a house into a home. Whether for a housewarming, a holiday, or a heartfelt thank you, it offers the recipient a moment of effortless calm and curated beauty.

Includes:
- The Four Rituals Linen Napkins
-
Hand-Poured Coconut Apricot Wax Candle
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"Strike Joy" Premium Matches

New!
Sweet Spot Gift Set
$42.00

The most meaningful moments happen when we slow down to connect. The Gracious Host set is a curated gift designed to honor the joy of giving. Perfectly balancing functional harmony with whimsical charm, this set is more than a token; it is a celebration of the rituals that turn a house into a home. Whether for a housewarming, a holiday, or a heartfelt thank you, it offers the recipient a moment of effortless calm and curated beauty.

Includes:
- The Four Rituals Linen Napkins
-
Hand-Poured Coconut Apricot Wax Candle
-
"Strike Joy" Premium Matches

  • "The perfect gift."

    —Sandra, NY

  • "I sent it directly to my mom, she was so surprised!"

    —Tory, NJ

  • "The box is almost as cute as what's inside it."

    —Elieen, CT

How it Works

1
Think of a friend you cherish.

2
Pick the perfect gift box.

3
We’ll handle the rest!

Our Story

At the heart of Charm & Order is Erin, a New York City-based maker dedicated to the art of intentional living. Every candle in the collection is hand-poured by Erin. She personally curates, packs, and ships every order to ensure a human touch reaches your door. Her work is guided by her experience running a small home organization business, which informs her "Second Life" philosophy; the belief that every vessel and material should be chosen not just for its immediate beauty, but for its ability to be repurposed and treasured in your home long after the first unboxing.

Every single candle in the collection is meticulously hand-poured with care by Erin.

Each gift set is curated to ensure that the moment of unboxing is a delight.

Each time the candle is lit, its warm glow serves as a reminder of your thoughtful gesture.

Our candles are crafted with a sustainable coconut apricot wax blend.

Sweet Spot Candle
$24.00

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Frequently Asked Questions

  • We rotate our limited-edition scents to match the rhythm of the year. While our Sweet Spot classic is always available, seasonal drops like New Leaf are limited additions.

  • Yes. The Gracious Host set arrives in our signature brand packaging, featuring our light and dark pink color story with white accents, making it ready to be gifted the moment it hits your doorstep.

  • Currently, our items are exclusively available as part of our curated gift sets to ensure a complete, harmonious experience for the recipient.

  • It is a premium wax blend that burns cleaner and slower than traditional paraffin or soy. it also holds fragrance beautifully, ensuring the scent remains consistent from the first light to the last.