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Pink box with a pink label that reads, 'A little box of treasures for a real charmer,' with a green wand and a pink towel underneath.
Pink box with a pink label that reads, 'A little box of treasures for a real charmer,' with a green wand and a pink towel underneath.

For the host,

that’s the most.

Gift it

Gift Boxes

New Leaf Gift Set New Leaf Gift Set
New Leaf Gift Set
$49.00

The most meaningful moments happen when we slow down to connect. The Gracious Host set is a curated gift designed to honor the joy of giving. Perfectly balancing functional harmony with whimsical charm, this set is more than a token—it is a celebration of the rituals that turn a house into a home. Whether for a housewarming, a holiday, or a heartfelt thank you, it offers the recipient a moment of effortless calm and curated beauty.

Includes:
- The Four Rituals Linen Napkins
- Hand-Poured Coconut Apricot Wax Candle
- "Strike Joy" Premium Matches

New!
Sweet Spot Gift Set Sweet Spot Gift Set
Sweet Spot Gift Set
$49.00

The most meaningful moments happen when we slow down to connect. The Gracious Host set is a curated gift designed to honor the joy of giving. Perfectly balancing functional harmony with whimsical charm, this set is more than a token; it is a celebration of the rituals that turn a house into a home. Whether for a housewarming, a holiday, or a heartfelt thank you, it offers the recipient a moment of effortless calm and curated beauty.

Includes:
- The Four Rituals Linen Napkins
- Hand-Poured Coconut Apricot Wax Candle
- "Strike Joy" Premium Matches

  • "The perfect gift."

    —Sandra, NY

  • "I sent it directly to my mom, she was so surprised!"

    —Tory, NJ

  • "The box is almost as cute as what's inside it."

    —Elieen, CT

How it Works

1
Think of a friend you cherish.

2
Pick the perfect gift box.

3
We’ll handle the rest!

Our Story

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At the heart of Charm & Order is Erin, a New York City-based maker dedicated to the art of intentional living. Every candle in the collection is hand-poured by Erin. She personally curates, packs, and ships every order to ensure a human touch reaches your door. Her work is guided by her experience running a small home organization business, which informs her "Second Life" philosophy; the belief that every vessel and material should be chosen not just for its immediate beauty, but for its ability to be repurposed and treasured in your home long after the first unboxing.

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A row of yellow buckets with metallic spatulas resting on the edges, lined up against a window in a room with a partially exposed brick wall.

Every single candle in the collection is meticulously hand-poured with care by Erin.

A pink gift box with five rolled beige towels embroidered with green clover and the word 'luck' in green, resting on pink shredded paper.

Each gift set is curated to ensure that the moment of unboxing is a delight.

Each time the candle is lit, its warm glow serves as a reminder of your thoughtful gesture.

A white ceramic vase with dried branches sits on a windowsill next to a candle with the words "Sweet & Spot" written on it. A stack of books and a rock are also on the table. Sunlight streams in through the window, illuminating the arrangement.
Cream-colored candle in a beige container with white text reading 'Sweet &' and a clover-shaped design.

Our candles are crafted with a sustainable coconut apricot wax blend.

First Pick Autumn Candle First Pick Autumn Candle
First Pick Autumn Candle
$26.00

Bring a cozy, inviting energy into your home as the seasons change. The First Pick Autumn Candle opens with the deep, juicy sweetness of ripe plum, beautifully intertwined with a warm dash of freshly ground cinnamon. Grounded by a rich, earthy base of cedar, this fragrance creates an instantly comforting autumn atmosphere. Handcrafted and clean-burning, it offers a warm escape that perfectly elevates your seasonal ritual.

Key Features

  • Scent Profile: A rich, warm blend of juicy plum, aromatic cinnamon, and earthy cedar.

  • Clean-Burning: Handmade with non-toxic coconut apricot wax.

  • The Mood: Cozy and grounded, designed to bring warmth and comfort to your space.

  • The Vessel: Includes a lid and minimal aesthetic for second use.

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Frequently Asked Questions

  • We rotate our limited-edition scents to match the rhythm of the year. While our Sweet Spot classic is always available, seasonal drops like New Leaf are limited additions.

  • Yes. The Gracious Host set arrives in our signature brand packaging, featuring our light and dark pink color story with white accents, making it ready to be gifted the moment it hits your doorstep.

  • Currently, our items are exclusively available as part of our curated gift sets to ensure a complete, harmonious experience for the recipient.

  • It is a premium wax blend that burns cleaner and slower than traditional paraffin or soy. it also holds fragrance beautifully, ensuring the scent remains consistent from the first light to the last.